Alright, I've been tagged, so I'm gonna do this >.>
I got tagged by my girlfriend though, so she diserves to hear this stuff anyway, so it's not like I'm not glad to do it :3

Any Reference here about "my girlfriend" refers to ::, but most apply to any girl if luck had been different and my girlfriend hadn't been her.

Do you think you’re a good bf/gf?:
I think I am, I may not give my girlfriend EVERYTHING she wants, but that's kind of impossible >.> but I believe I try harder than most guys.

Have any pictures of your bf/gf on your comp?:
Yup, I back up almost every picture of her on my laptop :3

Have you ever used a bf/gf’s photo as a wallpaper?:
Yeah, for a few months actually, and I still have picture in my car.

What would you do if someone was teasing your significant other and it was upsetting them?:
Depends when :/ this is where I'm not always "best". Sometimes I kind of let it slide, if it's minor, and other times I just try to comfort her, which still doesn't work out best. If someone is really bugging her, for a really long time though, I wage war, rawr!

What’s your idea of romance?:
Surprize, and corniness XD. I personally believe that as long as it's a "good thing", if it surprizes your significant other, it's romantic. Same if it's so cliche or corny that it's silly, because it's cute and funny. In general though, romance is just about being nice and attentive.


Do you believe in waiting until after marriage to have sex?:
No, like, 1,000 times. There are two kinds of sex, fun sex, and loving sex, and yes, it can be both at once. One has nothing to do with commitment, the other just shows trust and love, waiting till after marriage just limits your expression, intimacy and enjoyment! don't do it!

What would you do if someone came at your bf/gf with a knife?:
*sighs* sadly, I'd probably freeze. so far I haven't performed admirably when it comes to surprize "attacks", although I've never had one that dangerous XD. What I want to say though is that I'd take whatever I could and defend her, because I love her, and I'd rather risk my life than be sure I'd be fine, but put her at even worse risk.

What would you do if your bf/gf did something to embarrass you?:
I usually remain silent at the time, she's her own person and I shouldn't silence her. I usually talk to her later though, communication is key!

Are you possessive?:
Short answer no, long answer yes, with a but. For the vast majority I'm not, I'll let my girlfriend do what she wants, hang out with friends, talk to guys, even flirt with other guys, and I even encourage her to talk to me about "how hot so-and-so is", because I think that's a natural feeling, so I try and make her feel alright with it, she could even have sex with another man and I'd be "alright", as long as she was open with me about it, not sneaky. The but though, is that I'm possessive of her love, and sometimes her time. I get jealous sometimes when other guys are "really nice" to her, because even I get a little insecure, and I need her love!, and I'm possessive of her time, I say that becase sometimes she seems to pay more attention to her current obsession (Video game, book, etc.) than me, and sometimes feels like she's ignoring me even :0, and that's bad.

Would you ever hit your bf/gf in anger?:
Only if I literally could not control myself, I'd have to be drunk, and blind with rage. I don't believe in striking anyone really, and I never want to make anyone I love feel like they have to worry about being hit, nor do I want to feel terrible because I make them feel that way, so no, I would never hit her.

What would you do if your bf/gf woke up in the middle of the night screaming?:
Not notice (we don't live together). If I was there though, I'd do my best to comfort her, ask her what was wrong, and then hold her close, stroking her hair and repeating soft, comforting words.

Have you ever shared you bed with someone before?:
I have a twin brother, and we slept on a king-sized matress when we were like, 6 XD. Otherwise, no, I've never "shared" my bed with anyone, either referring to sleep or sex.

Would you share your bed with someone else?:
well yeah, Girlfriend! X3 when I'm finally able to, I'll happily sleep with her in my arms, even though she kicks when she falls asleep XD.

Are you clingy?:
Generally? no. Although I'll admit at certain times, especially when I'm upset, I can be. And at certain other specific times I have been, but it's generally uncommon, and shortlived.

If your bf/gf was in trouble, what would you do?:
Everything in my power to help her, and then I'd stress about not being able to help more.

If someone was flirting with your bf/gf, what would you do?:
Watch, so I can be sure he/she won't hurt her. I may not be possessive, but I'm protective >:0

What’s the worst thing you ever did to a bf/gf?:
Threatened to break up with her . Not one of my proudest moments, I didn't actually "threaten" literally, but I was upset, and I said that I wasn't sure I wanted to be with her, and I constantly regret ever saying that, because 99% of the time I can't even comprehend how I could ever have thought that!, and it's too late to take it back. It's taken so much for me to make it up to her, to make her feel secure and happy again.

Ever been in love?
Twice, although My current relationship has lasted a lot longer, and I feel much, much closer to her.

How do you feel about love?:
Everyone says love is "complicated" or "hard to explain", but I think it's really simplistic, although it can complicate your life!. Love to me, is just when one person wants to give to another person, again and again, without expecting anything in return, only to make the other happy, healthy, safe, etc. If the other doesn't give back though, they may become unhappy, or even fall out of love, but I know that is how love is, because I give everything to my girlfriend, probably more than I should, and I don't care what she does for me in return, only the fact that she's happy with what I do, and she wants to see me happy, she doesn't even have to make me happy (although she really does), to me, it's enough that she just wants it.

If you were upset with your significant other, what would you do?:
Probably get frustrated, saying things I don't mean, or wording things badly, being short with her. *sighs* I'm not a really good person when I'm truly upset, although I think I make up for it by not being upset by much :3 In the long run though, I talk to her about it though, because eventually I clear my head, and we realize that we need to work things out.

What would you do with the one you loved on a rainy day?:
Same as any other day XD, video games, card games and table-top games, games games games. Add some cuddling and kissing with that, and general mushy love stuff. We may go outside to run around in the rain for a little though, cuz we're both silly, and then hold eachother, since that's so romantic (CLICHE!!), but then we'd go back inside, and dry off, maybe get cocoa and drier-fresh blankets.

What are you wearing right now?:
What kind of question is that? O.o Stalker.

Do you mind if your bf/gf looks at other people with that special interest?:
Not at all, in fact, I encourage it in her, because I know it makes her happy, I don't like controlling her, and besides, it could mean fun for me :3

What’s your idea of the perfect date?:
It's a surprize!. Seriously, my idea of a perfect date is a complete surprize, since spontaenity and surprizes are romantic.

Have you ever dated someone/are you dating someone who cares about how you look?:
Well that question is unfair, because everyone CARES how their partner looks, it's just not everyone would let it rule their relationship. My girlfriend cares how I look, but she's one of the ones that I could look much, much worse and she'd still love me and be happy.

Would you ever get married?:
There was a phase in my life where I thought I wouldn't want to, but now yes, I want to, I really, really do, it just seems so nice.

How do you ask for sex?:
I don't. Seriously, I don't have sex with my girlfriend (legal issues, we'd rather wait than risk), and even disregarding that, my personality forbids me for asking for much at all, and especially not sex.

Is there someone right now that you’d say “I love you” to?:
Yes actually
"I love you Jennifer"

Are you sleeping with someone right now?:
I couldn't be typing if I was sleeping...

Would you ever convert religion/take up religion/stop your religion for your bf/gf?:
Well, I'm not religious, I'm an agnostic (don't ask)
My girlfriend is an Athiest, so I don't have to do anything about it, but hypothetically? yes I would. I believe comfort, safety, security, happiness, a family, compatibility, all sorts of things are more important than religious issues, so I would practice a religion to be in touch with my partner if that were the case (although I doubt I could ever truly believe).

Do you talk about your bf/gf a lot?:
Typically no. I'm a meek person, and I worry too much that if I talk about my girlfriend in front of people, they'll either feel awkward, lonely, or annoyed if I do, so I just don't
sorry baby! I still think about you all the time though!

Do you think about them often?:
Ah, I just answered that. Yes, I typically think about her all the time. Even in circumstances that have nothing to do with her, sometimes my imagination drifts off, or I just wonder how it would be if she were there.

Name three things that would make you break up with someone?:

Religion
(Like, offensive, oppressive, psycho-religious people, not just believe in a god religious),

Severe Moral problems
(Stealers, rapists, murderers yatta yatta, but also lesser things, like someone who's really rude, or just unkind)

Intellect
(I don't mean someone has to be as smart as me -I'm not trying to be pompous-, but I don't think I could ever be happy in the long term with someone who wasn't generally smart, liked things like reading and puzzles, and had a creative and imaginative mind. Not to mention values intellect too >.> they have to care about learning more, being smart, yatta yatta.)


Tag three people: (I doubt they'll read this Journal though ._. I'm so lonely)
art-inept
Nny2
Allyson0226